The Defining Decade (Revised): Why Your Twenties Matter--And How to Make the Mos

Description: The Defining Decade (Revised) by Meg Jay Revised and reissued for a new generation, The Defining Decade has changed the way millions of twentysomethings think about their twenties -- and themselves. FORMAT Paperback LANGUAGE English CONDITION Brand New Publisher Description Revised and reissued for a new generation, The Defining Decade has changed the way millions of twentysomethings think about their twenties -- and themselves.Our "thirty-is-the-new-twenty" culture tells us the twentysomething years dont matter. Some say they are an extended adolescence. Others call them an emerging adulthood. In The Defining Decade, Meg Jay argues that twentysomethings have been caught in a swirl of hype and misinformation, much of which has trivialized the most transformative time of our lives.Drawing from more than two decades of work with thousands of clients and students, Jay weaves the latest science of the twentysomething years with behind-closed-doors stories from twentysomethings themselves. The result is a provocative read that shows us how work, relationships, personality, identity and even the brain can change more during this decade than at any other time in adulthood -- if we use the time well.New in this updated edition:* Up-to-date research on work, love, social media, the brain, friendship and fertility* 29 conversations to have with your partner* A social experiment in which "digital natives" go without their devices* A Readers Guide for book clubs, classrooms or further self-reflectionThe Defining Decade shows us why, rather than a developmental downtime, our twenties are a developmental sweetspot. They are a time when the things we do-and the things we dont do -- will have an enormous effect across years and even generations to come. Author Biography Meg Jay, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and associate professor of human development at University of Virginia. She earned a doctorate in clinical psychology, and in gender studies, from University of California, Berkeley. Her TED talk "Why 30 Is Not the New 20" is among the most watched of all time. Review "A clinical psychologist issues a four-alarm call for the 50 million 20-somethings in America.... A cogent argument for growing up and a handy guidebook on how to get there."--Kirkus Reviews"Any recent college grad mired in a quarter-life crisis or merely dazed by the freedom of post-collegiate existence should consider it required reading."--Slate.com, Staff Pick"Before reading THE DEFINING DECADE I didnt know enough about the importance of our twenties to be concerned that I could mess it all up. Now that I do, I could worry myself into paralysis, or, as Meg Jay suggests, grab life by the helm--even if I still have no idea in hell where Im going. Without a doubt, The Defining Decade will leave you eager to embark on what I now see can be the most exciting odyssey of ones life."--Rachel Kauder Nalebuff, editor of My Little Red Book"Blending the latest social science research with real life accounts of twentysomething clients and students, Jay provides valuable and compelling insights and direction for twentysomethings, their parents, and parents of future twentysomethings."--Leslie C. Bell, PhD, author of Hard to Get: 20-Something Women and the Paradox of Sexual Freedom."Excellently written, this book is sensitive to the emotional life of twentysomethings."--Library Journal "Expecting to experience the joy of freedom and self-discovery, many young men and women find instead confusion, loneliness, and anomie. Jay is just the sort of guide that these twentysomethings and their parents need: sensitive, thoughtful, and wise."--Kay Hymowitz, author of Manning Up: How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men into Boys"I strongly recommend THE DEFINING DECADEfor anyone in their 20s trying to figure out their lifes direction. Youll learn how to search productively, how to avoid being indulgent, and how to turn good opportunities into great ones."--Po Bronson, author of What Should I Do With My Life?, co-author of Nurtureshock"Listen to me closely. If you know someone already in or entering the third decade of life, or their parents, or their therapist, you must give them this book. Meg Jay slams a cultural corrective on our desk. Pay attention. The twenties are the defining decade of human life where the foundation of every future is laid...No one should turn thirty without having read this book."--J. Anderson Thomson Jr., MD; staff psychiatrist, University of Virginia, department of Student Health; co-author, Facing Bipolar: The Young Adults Guide to Facing Bipolar Disorder"Meg Jay brings a sharp intellect, expertise on the life cycle, and extensive clinical experience to this powerful book. Age and time, she argues, are not malleable, even if people live longer and our culture believes that everything is possible. Reading this book will benefit clinicians, cultural commentators, and twentysomethings themselves."--Nancy Chodorow, author of Individualizing Gender and Sexuality: Theory and Practice"Meg Jay masterfully blends cutting-edge research and life stories of psychotherapy clients to make a compelling case that this age period is crucial for launching love and work. You will learn a lot from this book and it will spur you to seize control of your future now."--Avril Thorne, University of California, Santa Cruz"Meg Jay takes the specific complaints of twenty something life and puts them to diagnostic use."--New Yorker"The professional and personal angst of directionless twentysomethings is given a voice and some sober counsel in this engaging guide. While Jay maintains that facing difficulties in ones 20s is a jarring--but efficient and often necessary--way to grow, the author is sincere and sympathetic, making this well-researched mix of generational sociology, psychotherapy, career counseling, and relationship advice a practical treatise for a much-maligned demographic."--Publishers Weekly "This fascinating, engaging book makes a convincing case that the twenties are the most transformative period of peoples lives, and even better, shows readers how to get off the couch and live that decade well. It should be read by all young adults, their friends, their parents, their grandparents, their bosses, their siblings . . . really, by just about everyone!"--Timothy D. Wilson, author of Redirect: The Surprising New Science of Psychological Change"THE DEFINING DECADE does an excellent job of conveying the latest social science on twentysomething relationships and helping young adults to understand why these relationships can be so confusing and challenging...Young adults looking for insights about love, life, and marriage should turn to Dr. Meg Jays engaging and insightful new book."--W. Bradford Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia"THE DEFINING DECADE is a must read for the twentysomething who is looking to build a meaningful, fulfilling, and rich life. Dr. Jay clearly illustrates some of the biggest mistakes we can make in our twenties. But more important she gives advice about how to make decisions that will set twentysomethings up for success in the workplace and intimate relationships in their thirties and beyond."--C. J. Pascoe, author of Dude, Youre a Fag: Masculinity and Sexuality in High School "THE DEFINING DECADE is a rare gem: a fresh, original contribution to the study of adult development thats also a pleasurable, almost effortless read."--Daphne de Marneffe, PhD, author of Maternal Desire: On Children, Love, and the Inner Life"THE DEFINING DECADE is eye-opening, important, and a pleasure to read. I highly recommend it."--Wendy Mogel, author of The Blessing of a Skinned Knee and The Blessing of a B Minus"THE DEFINING DECADE is the book twentysomethings have been waiting for. It will not tell you what you should do with your life, but it will inspire, motivate, and educate you to figure it out."--Rachel Simmons, author of The Good Girl"THE DEFINING DECADE [is] just the wake up call many twentysomethings need."--The Coffin Factory Long Description Revised and reissued for a new generation, The Defining Decade has changed the way millions of twentysomethings think about their twenties -- and themselves. Our "thirty-is-the-new-twenty" culture tells us the twentysomething years dont matter. Some say they are an extended adolescence. Others call them an emerging adulthood. In The Defining Decade , Meg Jay argues that twentysomethings have been caught in a swirl of hype and misinformation, much of which has trivialized the most transformative time of our lives.Drawing from more than two decades of work with thousands of clients and students, Jay weaves the latest science of the twentysomething years with behind-closed-doors stories from twentysomethings themselves. The result is a provocative read that shows us how work, relationships, personality, identity and even the brain can change more during this decade than at any other time in adulthood -- if we use the time well.New in this updated edition: * Up-to-date research on work, love, social media, the brain, friendship and fertility * 29 conversations to have with your partner * A social experiment in which "digital natives" go without their devices * A Readers Guide for book clubs, classrooms or further self-reflection The Defining Decade shows us why, rather than a developmental downtime, our twenties are a developmental sweetspot. They are a time when the things we do-and the things we dont do -- will have an enormous effect across years and even generations to come. Review Quote "Meg Jay takes the specific complaints of twenty something life and puts them to diagnostic use."-- New Yorker Details ISBN1538754231 Author Meg Jay Short Title The Defining Decade Language English Year 2021 ISBN-10 1538754231 ISBN-13 9781538754238 Format Paperback Imprint Twelve Subtitle Why Your Twenties Matter--And How to Make the Most of Them Now Pages 336 UK Release Date 2021-04-15 Country of Publication United States US Release Date 2021-05-25 Publisher Little, Brown & Company Publication Date 2021-05-25 DEWEY 155.65 Audience General NZ Release Date 2021-05-24 AU Release Date 2021-05-24 We've got this At The Nile, if you're looking for it, we've got it. With fast shipping, low prices, friendly service and well over a million items - you're bound to find what you want, at a price you'll love! TheNile_Item_ID:135477699;

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