No More Regrets!: 30 Ways to Greater Happiness and Meaning in your Life by Marc

Description: No More Regrets! by Marc Muchnick Because we become prisoners of habit and circumstance, we take people in our lives for granted and fail to be true to ourselves. We stop growing and learning, become self-absorbed and judgmental, and lose touch with our innate goodness. Inspired by his final conversation with a dying friend, Marc Muchnicks No More Regrets! is specifically designed to help you avoid these pitfalls. FORMAT Paperback LANGUAGE English CONDITION Brand New Publisher Description We all want to live a life without regrets, but few of us succeed. Marc Muchnick, bestselling coauthor of The Leadership Pill, outlines thirty simple yet potentially life-changing actions that anyone can take to avoid regret and thereby live a happier, more meaningful life.Whenever we do something we wish we hadnt-or dont do something we wish we had-we vow it wont happen again. But do we ask ourselves why it happened in the first place?Because we become prisoners of habit and circumstance, we take people in our lives for granted and fail to be true to ourselves. We stop growing and learning, become self-absorbed and judgmental, and lose touch with our innate goodness. Inspired by his final conversation with a dying friend, Marc Muchnicks No More Regrets! is specifically designed to help you avoid these pitfalls.Just one or two of the thirty ways to greater happiness and meaning outlined here could potentially change your life. Muchnicks suggestions are straightforward, thoughtful, and easy to implement-often just a matter of shifting perspective and seeing the world differently. No More Regrets! will show you how to live in a way that allows you to confidently move forward rather than constantly look back. Author Biography Marc Muchnick, PhD, is founder and president of People First Group, which specializes in coaching, team building, and management consulting. He is also an online professor at Capella University and the coauthor, with Ken Blanchard, of The Leadership Pill. Table of Contents Foreword Acknowledgments Introduction Part I: Get Out of Your Rut 1. Stop Doing What Isnt Working 2. Pick a Place to Start 3. Make Peace with Yourself 4. Turn Adversity into Opportunity 5. Avoid Victimitis 6. Steer Clear of Toxic People Part II: Take Nothing for Granted 7. Live the Way You Want to Be Remembered 8. Greet the Day 9. Stay in Touch 10. Make Every Day Count 11. Freeze the Moment 12. Put Your Stuff in Perspective Part III: Aim for Authenticity 13. Live Your Vision 14. Listen to Your Heart 15. Find Your Own Voice 16. Speak Your Mind 17. Be True to What You Value Most 18. Pursue Your Happiness Part IV: Stretch Yourself 19. Give It a Shot 20. Trust Your Inner Strength 21. Get Out of Your Comfort Zone 22. Overcome the Obstacles 23. Broaden Your Cultural Perspective 24. Match Up with a Mentor Part V: Be the Force of Goodness 25. Keep an Open Mind 26. Love Unconditionally 27. Take a Mulligan 28. Do the Right Thing 29. Put Your Self-Interest Aside 30. Make the World a Better Place Next Steps The NO MORE REGRETS! Game Plan Giving Back Acknowledgments About the Author Review "Required reading for anyone who is seeking a life rich in happiness. When you start living your life without regrets, life is good!" —Marshall Goldsmith, author of What Got You Here Wont Get You There and Mojo "There is great power in Marcs message." —Marci Shimoff, author of Happy for No Reason and coauthor of Chicken Soup for the Womans Soul "Read No More Regrets! and you wont have any more! A great way to live the happier life you always wanted." —Ken Blanchard, coauthor of The One Minute Manager "Frankly, I doubt there is one person who would not benefit from reading Marcs thirty down-to earth and common-sense-loaded suggestions." —Colleen Barrett, President Emeritus, Southwest Airlines "This book is the key to unlock a life without regrets that is filled with joy, happiness and prosperity. Read it, use it, and share it." —Harry Paul, coauthor of Fish! "Were all searching for greater happiness, and Marcs heartfelt book provides wonderful tools to help us find it." —Barbara Sher, bestselling author of Wishcraft and I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was "You dont want your last words to be I wish I could live my life over. This book will inspire you, challenge you, and show you how to do it right the first time." —John Izzo, author of The Five Secrets You Must Discover Before You Die "Marc has done it again. His inspiring words of wisdom will remind you of what is important in your life and help you make decisions so that you too will have no more regrets." —Vicki Halsey, author of Brilliance by Design and coauthor of The Hamster Revolution and The Hamster Revolution for Meetings "No More Regrets! is your playbook for living life to its fullest! Everyone benefits from a good coach, and Marc entertainingly leads you through lifes most important lessons." —Chris Marlowe, 1984 Olympic Gold Medalist and play-by-play announcer for the Denver Nuggets "Inspirational, easy to read, and practical. If we dont learn from our past, we are doomed to repeat out mistakes. No More Regrets! shows us how to learn and move on so we are free to experience the full and enriched life we desire." —Jesse Stoner, coauthor of Full Steam Ahead! Review Quote "You dont want your last words to be I wish I could live my life over. This book will inspire you, challenge you and show you how to do it right the first time." -- John Izzo, Ph.D, author of The Five Secrets You Must Discover Before You Die "Required reading for anyone who is seeking a life rich in happiness. When you start living your life without regrets, life is good!" -Marshall Goldsmith, author of What Got You Here Wont Get You There and Mojo "There is great power in Marcs message." -Marci Shimoff, author of Happy for No Reason and coauthor of Chicken Soup for the Womans Soul "Read No More Regrets! and you wont have any more! A great way to live the happier life you always wanted." -Ken Blanchard, coauthor of The One Minute Manager "Frankly, I doubt there is one person who would not benefit from reading Marcs thirty down-to-earth and common-sense-loaded suggestions." -Colleen Barrett, President Emeritus, Southwest Airlines Excerpt from Book Introduction You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. MAE WEST NONE OF US want to look back on life with regrets or to be that person who reflects on the past and says, "If only I would have spent more quality time with the people I love most in my life ..." "If only I would have taken that vacation instead of working so much ..." "If only I would have gone with my gut ... " "If only I could take back what I said ... " But how often does that person sound a lot like you and me? Garys Gift Not too long ago a good friend of mine passed away--he was in his early forties and left a lot of loving friends and family behind. Garys battle with cancer lasted several years, and during that time I learned what a true fighter he was. When he was first diagnosed, the doctors told him he had only a few months to live. But Gary refused to give up and remained dedicated to working hard, traveling, and most of all spending quality time with his children in the midst of grueling chemotherapy regimens. Gary had always lived life to the fullest and was a shining example of how to seize the day and live in the moment. Six months before he died, Gary came to visit me. We sat on the back patio enjoying the beautiful summer day and reminiscing about old times. But when I asked Gary how he was feeling, he didnt want to talk about it. Instead he asked me lots of questions--what my family had planned for vacation, how work was going, and what my dreams were for the future. Then he asked what my biggest regret was. "My biggest regret?" I repeated. "Yes. If there was one thing in your life that you could go back and do differently, what would it be?" he clarified. "I need more time to think about it," I replied, "but since you brought it up, whats your biggest regret?" I watched Garys tired face grow tormented in the uncomfortable silence that followed. Finally he spoke. "There was a girl I dated many years ago ... I should have never let her go." Gary paused, then said, "She was my soul mate, yet I didnt realize it until twenty-three years later. When I got sick, she started calling me in the hospital. It was then that I realized what a deep connection she and I had, one that I somehow failed to recognize when I knew her back in college. I cant help but wonder how my life would have been different with her in it, and I kick myself because now its too late. When people say that life is short, I literally know what they mean. As my longtime friend, you must promise me that youll always do your best to live your life without any more regrets. For that you will always thank me." Gary hugged me, and I knew it was the last time I would ever have the opportunity to spend a quality afternoon with him. Three things became clearer to me on that day than ever before: * We all have regrets. * Our regrets go with us to the grave. * There is no time like the present to start living life without any more of them. This wake-up call was Garys gift to me and one I now want to give to you. The choices we make in life, as well as the missed opportunities, have a profound impact on our happiness in the end. To start working toward the goal of a life with no more regrets, we first have to understand what regrets are and why we have them in the first place. What Are Regrets? My definition of regrets is as follows: Regrets are the things we do that we wish we hadnt done and the things we fail to do that we wish we had done, both of which result in unhappiness, disappointment, or remorse. In other words, regrets are all about our actions and inactions. Therefore, regrets are about our behaviors and the feelings of unhappiness, disappointment, or remorse we attach to those behaviors. For example, if youve ever broken a promise, acted inconsistently with your values, made poor choices, or hurt someone as a result of what youve said or done (or failed to say or do), it was your behaviors that led to your feelings of regret. Understanding regret as a product of our behaviors has direct implications for how we make decisions. Typically we bring a number of elements into our decision-making framework, such as timing, context, opportunity, cost, how well feel about the decision after it is made, what the impact will be, and so on. What this book brings to the table is that for every decision we make, we must also ask the following two behavioral questions as a standard part of our decision-making process: * Will I have regrets if I do it (or dont do it)? * Will I avoid having regrets if I do it (or dont do it)? For example, will it cause a fight with my wife? Will I cut it too close to make it to my destination? Will he forgive me if I do it? If I dont speak up now, will I regret it forever? The takeaway here is that many of the decisions we make need to take into account the regret factor. Be sure to ask yourself these two behavior-focused questions as you make decisions going forward if you want to have a life with no more regrets. Keep in mind that regrets are not necessarily the same as mistakes. We can learn a lot from our mistakes, but we dont necessarily have to regret them. In fact, some of the best lessons in life come from making mistakes. Essentially, our regrets and our mistakes can differ by the positive or negative feelings we attribute to them. While we will all make mistakes, the key is to avoid making mistakes that we ultimately regret. One additional aspect of understanding regrets is that our regrets have some common themes, though the sources of our individual regrets are unique to each of us: * We get stuck in ruts and become prisoners to our regrets. * We take some things or people for granted. * We sacrifice our authenticity. * We stop growing, learning, and evolving. * We become overly self-absorbed, insensitive, and judgmental. What This Book Offers The thirty ways to greater happiness and meaning that I present to you in this book are divided into five overarching strategies for having no more regrets, each of which is based on an identified theme of regret: 1. Get out of your rut. 2. Take nothing for granted. 3. Aim for authenticity. 4. Stretch yourself. 5. Be a force of goodness. I am confident that out of the thirty ways I offer for living life with no more regrets, at least a few chapters will really resonate with you. Just one or two new insights can be the key to greater happiness and meaning in your life, career, and relationships. In other words, choosing just one action or new way of doing things can lead to a potentially life-changing moment. For example, when youre stuck in a rut, learning a new way to look at that situation might help you get out of the rut and change your trajectory. Likewise, if you view yourself as being a victim of your circumstances, focusing on what is within your control is empowering and can make you realize that you can break out of this state of mind. Making the Most of This Book So heres how to use this book: first, you can use it for yourself, at work, in your career, with your family, or in your relationships. As you are reading each chapter, evaluate how well the message fits for you. If its a good fit, ask the following: * What insights does it provide? * What does it inspire you to stop doing or start doing? * How will this impact your life? Next, for a chapter that you feel would be a better fit for someone else in your life, be sure to share it with that person and encourage him or her to take action. Then move on to the next chapter because the key to living your life with no more regrets is there, just waiting to be revealed. At the back of the book, Ive also provided easy-to-follow next steps for taking action along with a No More Regrets! Game Plan tool that I think you will find useful. Finally, make "No More Regrets!" both your credo and your commitment for the future--avoid repeating past regrets and prevent new ones from occurring. Following are my stories, many of them personal, about what it means to do just that. My goal is to get you to reflect on your own stories of when youve been stuck in a rut, taken something or someone for granted, struggled with being authentic, stopped growing or learning, or needed a reminder of how to be a force of goodness in the world. I encourage you to share these experiences with me and a growing community of enthusiastic readers on the official book Web site: -more-regrets.com. I look forward to hearing from you! None of us want to look back on life with regrets. ∼ What is your biggest regret in life and how did it impact you? Details ISBN1605098868 Short Title NO MORE REGRETS Language English ISBN-10 1605098868 ISBN-13 9781605098869 Media Book Format Paperback Author Marc Muchnick Pages 168 Year 2011 Imprint Berrett-Koehler Place of Publication San Francisco Country of Publication United States DEWEY 158.1 Series BK Life (Paperback) Subtitle 30 Ways to Greater Happiness and Meaning in your Life UK Release Date 2011-01-03 Publication Date 2011-01-03 AU Release Date 2011-01-03 NZ Release Date 2011-01-03 US Release Date 2011-01-03 Publisher Berrett-Koehler Audience General We've got this At The Nile, if you're looking for it, we've got it. 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